Orbiting
What is orbiting in dating?
Definition
When someone stops direct communication but continues to view your social media stories, like your posts, and maintain peripheral digital contact.
Why it matters
Orbiting can be confusing and prevent emotional closure. It keeps you wondering about their intentions while they maintain minimal investment.
How to handle it
Do not read too much into social media engagement. If someone wants to reconnect, they will message directly. Consider limiting their access to your content.
Examples
- Liking Instagram posts but not responding to messages
- Viewing all your stories but never messaging
- Engaging with content but avoiding direct contact
Composed insight
Studies show 67% of people who orbit have no intention of rekindling the connection - they are simply maintaining low-effort digital presence.